So recently…. a very close friend… who actually shaped a lot of my upbringing has come back into my life… Well we’ve chatted on and off for years… but there’s been a 6 or 7 year stint where i think we had one tiny 5 min chat… before that we were pretty consistent monthly chats….
Anyway, she’s married… got kids… decent life… happy happy and lovey dovey with hubby. So’s a few months ago, she starts to be overwhelmed with these feelings that the relationship is stagnating…. not bad… just… daily routine is becoming a grind…. kids, work, always busy… always in each other’s noses… for 7 years straight… it can get to anyone.
She tells him. it doesn’t go well. he goes for a jog. at midnight… and doesn’t come back till the next morning. It hit him real hard. So hard that he had to go spend the night out with a friend. i guess… console his soul and all….
Turns out… this friend… is some younger chick. He’s been porkin for 8 months now. Yeah. he’d go out on daily jogs… for 2 hours… and on his route, he’d stop by…. drop pants…. bang her a bit… then back on his merry way home.
maybe he wasn’t so happy either….
There’s a lot to be seen in the undertones of this. He wasn’t happy… so he sought a different path of escape. he made her feel bad with some comments when she talked to him… meaning he rationalized what he was doing to justify his actions…. Interestingly i still think he loves her. and this other chick didn’t mean much. i mean… if you only spend an hour a day with someone… and it’s used to bang them…. it’s unlikely to be true love.
But totally best route EVER.